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HOW TO DEAL WITH UNREQUITED LOVE
stEp 1 :
Accep the fact that he doesn't feel the same way about you.
If you continue to belive that there is a chance he will eventually love you,you will never move on.

stEp 2 :
understand the reasons why he doesn't feel the same way.
understanding the reason for unreqited love will help you to move past the situationand get over him.

stEp 3 :
Stay positive.
don't let this situation cause you to have bitterfeeling toward finding someone who loves you.
It will lead you toward becoming a bitter and unhappy person.

stEp 4 :
Get your mind off of him.
spend more time with friends and family, and surround yourself with those who love and care about you.

stEp 5 :
keep busy.
throw yourself into your workor hobbies. If you don't have any hobbies there are plenty to choose from so it won't be difficult finding one.

stEp 6 :
focus on your future.
nobody has ever moved forward by costantly looking backfocusing in your future will make you take your focus off him.

stEp 7 :
Remind yourself of your good qualities.
Just because one person does not love you do not mean you are not a good person. Remind your self of that as often as necessary.

stEp 8 :
go out on dates.
it may be difficult at first because your heart may still belong to him but the worst that could happen is that you meet someone you like to hang out with.
You never know, you may meet someone you really like that feels the same way about you.

stEp 9 :
appreciate yourself.
realize that you don't need anyone to validate you and that you are still the wonderfull person you were before the breakup. Remind yourself that most relationship don't work out and that your breakup isn't unusual. Work on gaining independence so that you can be just as happy alone as when you're in a relationship. That will make you more attractive.

stEp 10 :
If you've been left before, think of how you overcame that pain.
you did it once, you can do it again.

stEp 11 :
Don't feed the monster.
After a week or two of grief, stop yourself from indulging conversations about your lost love or from obtaining information about them. In time, your grief will fade on its own, provided you let it.

stEp 12 :
Ask yourself, "Why would I want to be with anyone who doesn't love me back ?" You deserve better. You may discover you are repeating a pathology from your childhood. Clinging to someone who doesn't appreciate you in an effort to win the approval you could not get from your parents . Seek professional help to dig deeper if you suspect this is true.